FAQ
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The choice is yours. Formal Church service to a farewell at the local Bowling Club. From a Memorial Service in a special pinic ground to the local waterhole. Our Chapel, Northbrook Chapel in North Canterbury and Riccarton Racecourse, a winery or perhaps a Christchurch RSA Venues, the choice is yours even your own residence. We will help organise the set up, sound system, projection presentation, seating etc. catering and Memorial Printing.
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Is it important? People generally feel 'empty' if they can't say a funeral service is the traditional way of saying goodbye and paying one's respects to one's loved family member or friend. There are choices nowadays from traditional full funerals, to personal tribute funerals, graveside services, non religious funerals, memorial services (held after cremation) at a venue of choice (from a church, club rooms, at home or the beach)
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Even in this day of facebook and digital social media most people are still advised about a death through the newspaper (physically or digitally). We can place notices in any newspaper including the local newspapers and do not add any additional costs to what they charge.
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You are able to provide your own flowers, have a relative make a spray or wreath or we can organise this on your behalf from our respected and known Florist (Victoria Florist).
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Basically anyone you wish be it a family member, a friend, clergy or a celebrant. Celebrants will provide a service appropriate for you and your needs and cultural beliefs and this may be secular but can incorporate religious aspects.
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There are many ways to grieve. There are many aspects of grief including shock, numbness, and relief (especially after a long illness), depression, loneliness or guilt. You may also feel exhausted, cold, tense and/or have trouble sleeping. These are normal responses. If these continue seek help from your doctor.
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The most important thing a parent can do is to talk to their children about grief and give honest answers to their questions. Be factual let them be a part of the funeral arrangements, put their mementoes in the casket such as a letter or a toy. Children need to be able to let go just like adults.
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Because of the flexible nature of our pre-arrangements, your preferences for pre-arrangement may be transferred at any time in the event you move. We can recommend a reputable funeral home in your new community.
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If you are travelling or visiting another city when death occurs, your survivors should contact our funeral home immediately. We will make all necessary arrangements for transfer to your local funeral home.
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We can arrange to add additional services to your Plan and we will advise you of the cost.
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When you take out a Plan a duplicate copy of your arrangements is available to pass to a family members, friend or Executor. It will give them all the details and tell them exactly what to do and what number to call in the event of your death. When the time comes it will only take on phone call to us to activate your Plan.
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Few people can know the timing of their own death in advance. It is possible to make preparations to ease the burden that will fall on your next-of-kin. See pre arranging your funeral here.
Planning Options
Your wishes… Your Plans…
The idea of pre-arranging and pre-paying a funeral often strikes people as new and different. In fact, funeral plans were introduced in NZ over 50 years ago.
Making an Advance Funeral Arrangements Plan is not the kind of thing you do every day. You might feel a little nervous about discussing the details. Like most people, you’ll probably be surprised at how easy it actually is.
Call in and see the friendly people at Hall & Co Funeral Directors, or if you feel more comfortable sitting down and talking over your plan at home, we’ll be happy to visit at a convenient time. We’ll listen carefully to everything you have to say, including all the items that may seem small but are important to you. We will, of course, offer all the advice you need, but we will never forget that it’s your Plan, not ours.
These days we plan for so many of life’s future events, holidays, weddings, we even plan for events we wish may never happen, like fires, sickness and accidents.
Pre-paying our funeral can also be seen as part of this. It can help provide your family with a sense of security, knowing that yours and your family’s needs will be looked after.
We would like you to remember that, if at any time in the future, you’re unhappy about any detail of your Plan, we will be happy to make any changes for you, however small.
One of the most difficult aspects to planning a funeral is simply knowing where to begin.
As funeral directors. we can assist in answering any questions you may have about prepaying a funeral. This brochure is designed to inform you about the many benefits you will receive by prepaying your funeral.
Start planning today…although there are many decisions to be made when arranging a funeral, as experienced funeral directors we can assist you in all stages of planning.
Some considerations to start your planning are:
Would you prefer burial or cremation?
Are there certain religious or fraternal customs to be followed?
What type of casket/coffin would you prefer?
Do you wish to involve a specific organization or club in the service?
Do you wish to name pallbearers?
Do you wish to be buried in particular clothing or jewellery?
Are there any special readings, biblical passages or musical selections you prefer?
This list is far from complete, but gives you an idea of the various features about your funeral that you may wish to consider.
Consider some advantages of Pre-arrangement:
Your Peace of Mind: often we have special wishes concerning our funeral. Decisions made early provides you & your family with the comfort of knowing that everything will be taken care of correctly. Your Family: without a doubt, the most important reason for pre-arranging your funeral is to spare your family many difficult decisions at a very emotionally trying time. During this stressful time, when reason is clouded, even the most sincere desire to create a fitting tribute can result in emotionally compelled overspending and other regretful decisions.